Discord lets you change the birthdate on your account, but the process depends on whether you set one when you created it
You can update your birthdate in Discord's account settings on both desktop and mobile. The steps are the same either way: open Discord, go to User Settings, select "Account," and look for the birthdate field. If you set a birthdate when you first signed up, you can change it to a different date. If you never added one, you can add it now.
The one limit: Discord does not let you remove a birthdate once it is set. You can only replace it with a different date. This matters if you added an incorrect age years ago — you will need to enter a new birthdate rather than leaving the field blank.
Your age on Discord affects which servers you can join and what content you can see. Some servers restrict access to users over or under a certain age, and Discord's own safety features change based on your birthdate. Changing it may open or close access to certain communities.
Key Takeaways
- You can change your Discord birthdate in User Settings under Account, on desktop or mobile, by clicking the birthdate field and entering a new date.
- Discord does not allow you to delete a birthdate once it is set — you can only replace it with a different one.
- Your age controls which servers you can join and what safety features Discord applies to your account.
- If you are under 13, Discord may restrict your account or require parental consent depending on your region.
- Changing your age may lock you out of servers that have age restrictions, so check a server's rules before updating your birthdate.
Step-by-step: changing your birthdate on desktop
Open Discord and look for the gear icon in the bottom left corner next to your username. Click it to open User Settings. On the left side, select "Account." You will see several fields including username, email, and phone number. Scroll down until you find the birthdate field.
Click on the birthdate field. A date picker will appear. Use the dropdown menus or type directly to enter your new month, day, and year. Once you have entered the new date, click outside the field or press Enter to save. Discord saves the change when ready — you do not need to click a separate save button.
If you have two-factor authentication enabled on your account, Discord may ask you to verify your identity before changing sensitive information like your birthdate. If this happens, complete the verification step and try again.
Step-by-step: changing your birthdate on mobile
Open the Discord app and tap the three horizontal lines (the menu icon) in the bottom right corner. Tap your username or profile picture at the bottom of the menu. Select "Account" from the list of options. Scroll down to find the birthdate field.
Tap the birthdate field to open the date picker. Select your new month, day, and year using the picker interface. On iOS, you will see a spinning wheel; on Android, you may see a calendar or dropdown. Once you have set the date, tap outside the picker or press the back button to save.
Mobile Discord sometimes takes a moment to sync changes to Discord's servers. If your new birthdate does not appear when ready, close the app completely and reopen it.
What happens when you change your age
Changing your birthdate can affect your access to Discord servers when ready. If you lower your age and a server has a minimum age requirement, you may be automatically removed from that server. The server owner will not be notified — you will straightforward no longer appear in the member list.
If you raise your age, you may gain access to servers that previously blocked you. However, you will not receive an automatic invitation to rejoin servers that removed you. You would need to ask the server owner for a new invite link.
Discord's safety features also adjust based on your age. Accounts under 18 have stricter default privacy settings. Accounts under 13 may have additional restrictions depending on your country's laws, particularly in the European Union and California.
Age restrictions and why servers use them
Many Discord servers set age minimums or maximums for their communities. A gaming server might require members to be 18 or older. A server for teenagers might set a maximum age of 19. These restrictions are set by the server owner, not by Discord itself.
Some servers use age restrictions to keep the conversation appropriate for their audience. Others use them to prevent adults from joining spaces designed for minors. A few use age restrictions as a basic safety measure, though age alone does not verify who someone actually is.
When you change your birthdate, Discord checks it against each server's rules. If your new age no longer meets the requirements, the system removes you automatically. There is no way to override this — you cannot stay in a server if your age falls outside its range.
If you are under 13 and want to use Discord
Discord's terms of service require users to be at least 13 years old. If you set your birthdate to show you are under 13, Discord may restrict your account or ask for parental consent depending on where you live.
In the European Union, users under 16 may need parental permission. In California, users under 13 need verifiable parental consent. Discord handles these requirements through its account settings — you may see prompts asking for a parent or guardian's email address.
If you are under 13 and want to use Discord, talk to a parent or guardian first. They can help you set up your account correctly and understand Discord's safety features. Discord also offers a guide for parents on its website explaining how the platform works and what controls are available.
Troubleshooting: what to do if you cannot change your age
If the birthdate field is greyed out or will not let you click it, you may have a security restriction on your account. This sometimes happens if Discord detected unusual activity or if you recently changed your password. Wait 24 hours and try again, or change your password to reset the restriction.
If you see an error message when you try to save a new birthdate, check that you entered a valid date. Discord will reject dates that are impossible (like February 30) or dates in the future. Make sure the year, month, and day are all correct before trying again.
If you have two-factor authentication on your account and Discord keeps asking you to verify, make sure you are using the correct authentication method. Check that your phone has the right time and date set, since time-based codes depend on accurate system time.
Frequently Asked Questions
Can I change my age multiple times?
Yes, you can change your birthdate as many times as you want. Each time you change it, Discord checks it against your servers' age restrictions and may remove you from servers where your new age does not fit. There is no limit on how often you can update it.
Will changing my age affect my friends or messages?
No. Changing your birthdate does not delete your messages, remove your friends, or affect your direct messages. It only changes which servers you can access and which safety features explore to your account. Your friends will still see you in their friends list.
What if I forgot what age I set when I created my account?
You can see your current birthdate in User Settings under Account. Just open the settings and look at the birthdate field — it will show the date you currently have set. If you want to change it, click the field and enter a new date.
Can Discord staff see my real age if I enter a fake one?
Discord stores whatever birthdate you enter. If you enter a fake date, Discord has no way to know it is fake unless you tell them or unless your account triggers a security review. However, lying about your age to join age-restricted servers violates Discord's terms of service.
What happens if a server owner finds out I lied about my age?
The server owner can remove you from the server manually. They can also report your account to Discord if they believe you are breaking the terms of service. Discord may investigate and restrict or suspend your account if they find evidence of age misrepresentation.